Monday, November 2, 2009

Quick Updates!

I apologize if this post is boring, and for the lack of pictures. I knew starting a blog right now would not be the best idea, considering we have zero time to update. But regardless, here we are.... and we promised family we would post at least one blog a week. So here is my poor attempt in fulfilling my promise..... maybe after reading this post you will forgive me and understand how crazy busy our lives are right now.
Here we go.... (I have to be to work in 25 minutes!!)

We are both taking on full loads at school. We are both taking on some intense classes the closer we are getting to our majors. As I mentioned in an earlier post, I'm started to apply to nursing school, and grades are crucial. Erik switched majors, and has to keep up with these smarty-pants engineers that have been doing this stuff for years. Needless to say..... school is still top priority for both of us. We spend many hours in the library and in labs with professors seeking extra help outside of class.

If that's not intense enough...... we are both working two jobs. I have been a server and Chili's, and I just picked up another job at Hollister (clothing store). I work just a few hours a week there in between classes and whenever I can..... they are really good about giving me the hours I want, which is nice. Erik still works as a student engineer at the tech, but while taking a full load of classes, he is only permitted to work 20 hours max. He just got a job working as a server at Chili's with me.... yay!!!! We love the tips, and we'll love working together. Both working two jobs and going to school full time may sound crazy.... but you have to do what you have to do, right?! We have both agreed if we start to fall behind in school or something gets in the way of other priorities we will quit one job or the other.

Other things going on....... we are buying a car!!!! We've been looking for a few months, and thank you to Erik's dad for selling his truck for him..... we are ready for our first big purchase. It's stressful buying a car! We both were so excited to start looking, but when it has came down to it... not fun! what's the most pratical at this point in time? We've been back in forth with price ranges, with the kind of cars we like, with the year of a car, the gas milages..... etc. Not to mention the car salesmen! that's enough to stress out first time car buyers. Never know how truthful they actually are, and how bad you are getting ripped off. Needless to say, think we finally found a car! I love it.... Erik just needs to test drive it still. Hope we have a new car this week!

We have a new addition to our family. It's never easy moving back home after living on your own for years..... but my sister Rachelle and I both did. And heaven bless Erik's sweet soul!!! He moved into my parents house over a year ago. It's not easy, and it definately adds some stress to the relationship. But..... we are greatful for my parents and everything to do!!! They are very welcoming and open to anyone in their home. And I have to admit.... I enjoy it! There is always someone there and something going on. This past week, Robin moved in! She is my little sisters friend, but we've all always thought of her as our own sister. She makes AMAZING cookies, and let's face it..... she's not the brightest star in the sky! This was a conversation we had the other night:
me- "Robin, what are you eating?!"
Robin- "A popcorn ball."
me- "gross.... why are you eating a popcorn ball?"
Robin- "I don't know..... because I don't like popcorn."
me- "wait what?! you know a popcorn ball is still popcorn."
Robin- "yeah I know..... I just like them better"
Haha..... her and my sister Kelsy make me laugh none stop. I could just sit downstairs and make fun of them all day...... they make me even feel smart :)

Oh yeah..... we are engaged..... as you know...... which means......... wedding planning!!!!
Oh my gosh!!!! Wedding planning is also very stressful. Coming from two different family...... two different religions....... two (or more) different states. It gets stressful. We are handeling it the best we can...... talking with our families. I had my first wedding breakdown a week or so ago, and I have a feeling it won't be the last! No, there is no set date or set place yet. However, I did buy my first bridal magazines :). We have photographers (thanks jeff and laura) and a time to take engagement pictures. I have a time planned to go dress shopping. We've picked our wedding colors..... and yeah that's about it. Put the stress aside..... we are getting excited and Erik is amazing!!!

We have a lot going on in our lives! Times are stressful and crazy..... but we still make time for each other and make sure we relax and have some fun times along the way. Hope all is well with everyone else!!! Until next time....

2 comments:

  1. I didn't know Erik also worked at Chilli's. Also I am happy you found a car you like!

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  2. It was the perfect update! Glad to hear it all. Got to love being servers. Ty and I both were servers when we were engaged. Loved it, but glad to no longer be doing it! Wish you all the best :)

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